Zimbabwe

My first apartment out of college was the bottom floors of a shared townhouse in Boston with three other buddies from school. When one moved away, we pulled in Catherine Ressijac, a friend of a friend who was a year younger from Harvard. When Catherine, or "The Ress" as we call her, visited a rhino sanctuary in rural Zimbabwe on vacation last winter and never came back, the rest of her roommates from 9 Symphony Road promised to come visit  her new job and life. So after the end of my training in Cape Town on the first day of 2015, I joined the rest of my old roommates on a flight bound for Zimbabwe, heading for The Ress.

Part of the crew with our fearless Zimbabwean leader, the Ress

Part of the crew with our fearless Zimbabwean leader, the Ress

Roommates reunited

Roommates reunited

Down a bumpy mostly paved road three hours southeast of Harare sits Imire Rhino & Wildlife Conservation, an 11,000 acre wild game reserve and The Ress' office and home for the past year. We crammed five people into The Ress' log cabin overlooking a swamp where her nearest neighbor is the hippo who lives in it. Ress' new 9 to 5 started at 5 AM, feeding the elephants and checking in on the endangered black rhino and it's new baby. By mid morning we were informed that a meddling warthog had been attacking the baby rhino, and therefore had been shot. Right. The rest of us watched in awe as Ress casually helped divvy up the warthog as dessert to a very hungry lion and pack of hyenas. Lunchtime was PB&J's before visiting the elephant who thinks he is a buffalo, along with his buffalo friends. Later it was on to happy hour, climbing up wood ladders with a cooler of beers to the top of a rock overlooking the park, sipping ice cold Castle Lights as sunlight faded around us and night creeped in across the plains.

On your right, the courageous Ress feeds half the warthog to the lion as her ex-roommates hide and take pictures (photo: Durell)

On your right, the courageous Ress feeds half the warthog to the lion as her ex-roommates hide and take pictures (photo: Durell)

Our crew of old roommates canoed along the Zambezi river that splits Zimbabwe and Zambia, shared stories of new apartments, cities and roommates while drifting past more elephants, making friends with a few hundred hippos. In Mana Pools National Park we zipped around zebras and impalas, got our truck stuck and eventually unstuck in mud next to the pack of warthogs and at night, listened to the lions roaring nearby and rested easily because, as the locals told us, "hungry lions never roar." Before leaving for Zim I had been told of it's natural beauty, told there wasn't a sunset quite like the sunset along the Zambezi. Cotton candy pink and burnt orange and dark red streaked the sky, reflecting off the still river. Behind us, a dozen sets of curious hippo eyes watched patiently from the water.

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Amidst all this I was still training- a few weeks earlier I was given a qualifying spot into a Wimbledon-like pro squash tournament coming up in NYC, so Zimbabwe became the unlikely base for my prep. In Victoria Falls my taxi wove around throngs of unruly baboons and past peddlers selling old trillion dollar Zimbabwean currency notes, taking me to the only set of courts on the outskirts of town. In the basement of a hotel I arrived at the courts doubling as a time machine going back fifty years. The door creaked open and a few moths danced around the light pouring in for the first time in a while. Dust sprang up from the blackened hardwood floorboards during footwork drills as wall spiders looked on in amusement during sprints and hitting routines. In Harare I hit with Andrew, a British-Nigerian hospitality entrepreneur and friend of my former college assistant coach Busani. Andrew runs Amanzi, a top notch farm-to-table restaurant and lodge in town, a must if you ever make it through.

Our final night in Africa hadn't yet been planned when I got an email the day of, in all caps, from a woman named Rosalind Millar. In all caps, Ros invited all six of us to crash at her family's home in Harare. We met her husband Henry at the airport a few hours later, climbed into his pickup and thanked him for having us. We promised not to impose, expecting floor space and, if we were lucky, a few couches to spend our last night on.

One of the best families around, the Millar crew in Harare

One of the best families around, the Millar crew in Harare

Henry and Ross had planned otherwise. We arrived at their home to a full scale Zimbabwean braii (aka barbeque) thrown in honor of the visiting Americans. Their daughter Katie had a dozen friends over and before bags were dropped, beers were poured and and drinks were mixed and meats were grilling, all setting up for the grand finale: a night out at the local spot in Harare, Tin Roof. We ate and drank and stormed the Tin Roof alongside lifelong Hararians, forming an unlikely wolfpack that you wouldn't have guessed came together a couple hours earlier. Somewhere in all this I laughed trying to remember how we got here: Henry and Rosalind are my high school friend Megan's friend from home Lauren's mom Desi's best friend Tanya's sister and her husband, who I had just happened to sat down next to at Christmas dinner two weeks earlier in South Africa.

During a drive earlier that evening with Henry, bumping along unfinished construction sites and pothole-riddled roads, he told us of a different, earlier Zim: it's days as British Rhodesia, an African agricultural and economic powerhouse under colonial rule, more advanced than South Africa and with a quality of life unrivaled on the continent. "Even after the war for independence, in 1980, the Zim dollar was valued 2:1 to the British Pound." Henry paused the story to point out that next to our one lane road was asphalt designed for a four lane roadway that is over ten years in the making, plagued by chronic corruption of the funds given to the project. We slowed to a stop behind the growing line of cars ahead in our one lane road. After some silence, Henry finished his thought about the government that took over newly independent Zimbabwe in 1980- about how, at that time, "they had a goldmine here."

That was thirty-five years ago, just as Robert Mugabe took over the goldmine. Driving to the Royal Harare Sports Club the next day for a training session a few hours before my flight, we passed the road leading to Mugabe's estate. It's patrolled by the military and is closed daily from 6 PM to 6 AM in their attempts to thwart any potential assination attacks on Mugabe. I thought the road closure and automatic weapon patrol unit seemed a little excessive although my friend in the car made a good point: "I guess if you want to become a dictator it kinda comes with the territory."

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Directly next door to Mugabe's estate, the courts at the Royal Harare Sports Club contrasted the new regime being a remnant of the old. British influence was everywhere, with signs in the locker room stating that "Gentleman are requested not to occupy the bar wearing wet squash clothing." Looking at the bar my guess was the last gentlemen to occupy it in any clothing was before my lifetime. Vintage oak plaques surrounded the center show court, celebrating the Rhodesian squash champions of the 1960s. Resting in darkness behind locked entry doors, you get the feeling the court and its showcase hadn't been touched much since then.

Out the back of the squash facility, Canada was taking on Zimbabwe in a national cricket match set against an aging wooden stadium that looked like a mix between the one from The Sandlot and Field of Dreams. The scene was a clash of eras- colonial style squash and cricket setups bumping up next to a modern dictators palace and his armed guards. This was where things seem to stand for the country today, some part 1960s British Rhodesia and some part Mugabe's Zimbabwe of 2015. I wondered what comes next.

View from the vintage cricket pitch in Harare, as the lawn zamboni cruises by

View from the vintage cricket pitch in Harare, as the lawn zamboni cruises by

Photo shoot of Zim's next big boy band at Victoria Falls

Photo shoot of Zim's next big boy band at Victoria Falls

Boy band tour bus gets stuck in mud, bye bye bye tour bus

Boy band tour bus gets stuck in mud, bye bye bye tour bus

One of these buffalo doesn't look like the others

One of these buffalo doesn't look like the others

A long way from 9 Symphony Road in Boston

A long way from 9 Symphony Road in Boston

Couch surfing the tour

Couch surfing the tour

South Africa

On a chilly Hanover, New Hampshire November morning in 2013, I sat down for coffee with a South African friend from college and had one wish: help me figure out how I could some day play in sub-Saharan Africa. If I was to go play the tour abroad, I was determined to play in South Africa, although walking toward the cafe that frozen winter morning, both of those ideas felt a far way away. But a few pastries later, amidst muffin crumbs on the back of a coffee-stained scrap of paper inside the bakery, my friend handed me a sketched out blueprint of the people, places, and ideas that, fifteen months later, would lead me to Cape Town, South Africa. 

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I landed from Dubai as December started off and pinched myself about a hundred times as I set up shop in the seaside community of Camps Bay, home to the first division squash championship team from the Camps Bay Squash Club. It was happening. I joined the club, was given a key to the courts and rented a studio apartment down the road with my sister Emma, visiting from LA, and my Boston friend Gaia, who I hadn't seen in two years before running into on a street corner and asking if she needed a place to crash. 

296th and final training session of 2014 on December 31st

296th and final training session of 2014 on December 31st

Flanked by the towering peaks of Table Mountain from behind, a grocery store next door and the crashing waves of the Atlantic in front, my life for the month was captured in a hundred square meters and was any squash players' dream: top grade players to train with, courts open for ghosting and sprints any time of day, mountain hikes and runs for off court workouts. It didn't feel real. In our shared flat across from the Codfather seafood restaurant, the three American roommates half seriously looked into reasons to never leave.

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I met up with my college friend for an impromptu Dartmouth mini reunion and thanked her for that crumpled blueprint that led me here. On Christmas Eve I headed up the coast to the beach town of Knysna, where I met Lauren Hodgson and her extended family. During high school Lauren's friend Meg had moved from Johannesberg to Santa Barbara where Meg and I met in our 11th grade English class. Nine years later, Meg went out of her way to set me up with a Christmas visit to the Hodgsons.

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Fourth generation Zimbabweans, the Hodgson's now live in Johannesburg but have spent Christmas in this sleepy sea town since Lauren's great-great-grandfather built their home in the 1920s, arriving by boat from New Zealand. Worn leather titles like The Real Rhodesia and On The South African Frontier lined the bookshelf next to my bed, untouched relics from an earlier era in Africa.

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Christmas morning started around the tree, and I was more than surprised to find South African Santa had also brought the American visitor a few local presents, most notably real South African beef jerky. That evening our table of nearly twenty sat outside and feasted on a  British-style Christmas dinner that rivaled any Thanksgiving I've ever been a part of. Honey glazed hams and roast turkey with stuffing, beef Wellington and lamb roast, pan fried pumpkin fritters, cheesecakes, mousses, puddings.

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Around the table sat Zim families and their closest friends going back generations, along with the American who showed up the day prior. When it came time to give a toast, I tried describing how this was the most special part of the tour- witnessing the generosity of people who for no reason other than being kind have opened up their worlds and brought me into their lives with an open seat, a smile and an extra beer in hand. Hours passed as we ate and over ate, traded secret santa presents and belted out classic hits, poured more champagne and celebrated together as a family in the cool salty air of the Knysna summer night. 

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"Follow the rungs on a ladder but make sure to enjoy the spaces in between"  

"Follow the rungs on a ladder but make sure to enjoy the spaces in between"  

Dubai

Everything's bigger in Dubai 

Everything's bigger in Dubai 

"Hey Mike, hold on one second, just gotta feed the croc." My host in Dubai, Francis, was a bit busy when I came to visit him at his day job: it was lunchtime for the 1700 pound, 17 foot long King Croc at the Dubai Underwater Zoo and Aquarium and Francis, normally a scuba diver for the zoo, was asked to fill in as crocodile chef. Moments later Francis dangled a half chicken out to an animal with the biggest bite force in the world, pleasing the live crowd that had gathered here inside the biggest mall in the world, just next door to the tallest building in the world, all situated on what should be unlivable middle eastern desert. Supersized life where life shouldn't be- you'd get a headache trying to make sense of it all so I learned quickly it was easier to accept it for what it was: just another day in Dubai.

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Celebrating with loyal fans after the big W

Celebrating with loyal fans after the big W

I was in Dubai after snatching a qualifying spot for the Dubai Squash Cup, a major tournament that I was lucky just to have the chance to qualify for. I slipped by an older Pakistani player in my first match and in the second and final round of qualifying, edged out a 17-year old Egyptian, 3-2, to punch a ticket into the main draw. Easily the best win of my season, if not my short career so far. Every player aims to be prepared to outlast the other guy and find those last few points when it's two a piece heading into the fifth and deciding game. It's what you train for. Afterward I called my parents and then celebrated with my small but loyal first time squash fans in my corner, Francis' kids Frankie and Franco and one of their friends. They didn't know what was going on. Neither did I. 

A second memorable squash result came from a loss in my next match to Pakistan #1 and world #44, Nasir Iqbal. I had survived qualifying and was rewarded by playing a top-50 player in the world- a guy I would have paid to be on court with when I was sitting at my desk in Boston six months ago. I threw the kitchen sink at him and came away with a game, losing 3-1. I was ecstatic: a little over a year ago, I lost my first pro match to the world #90 and lost it badly- I could barely breath in between games as I went down fast. On court on Sunday, I had tangible proof of real progress: decent rallies, a couple drop winners, a game going my way. The weekend results would push me 30 spots up in the new world rankings to a personal best of #222, up from ~#300 in June. More to myself than to anyone else, the matches in Dubai made me feel like I belonged with the other guys out there, like everything invested leading up to it - my time, my training, my matches - was so worth it.

Taking on world #44 Nasir Iqbal of Pakistan

Taking on world #44 Nasir Iqbal of Pakistan

When not feeding monster crocs, my host Francis Uy spends his day as an expert diver for the world famous zoo, giving check ups to the fish, feeding the sharks, making sure all living things are swimming smoothly. Through my friend Anderson and her dad Juan's introduction, Francis invited me to stay with him and his wife Dobs and their two kids, Frankie, 6, and Franco, 2. Francis greeted me like an old friend when I landed at the airport at 2 AM the night before my first tournament match, having never met and spoken once a couple weeks before. We squeezed my racquet bag next to his scuba flippers and headed south to Al Khaid Gate, where for the next ten days, I was home.

"Frozen" birthday parties = the best type of birthday parties 

"Frozen" birthday parties = the best type of birthday parties 

There's a vibrant and generous community of about half a million Filipinos living in Dubai and I think I may have met nearly all of them while living with the Uy family. The home welcomed any family relative, friend, or passerby at any hour, and I was no exception: Dobs told me with a smile that the morning after I arrived, Francis whispered to her in bed, "I have another friend visiting- he's sleeping on the futon in the living room- but it's ok, he's a friend of Juan's." We lived in the heart of a massive immigrant housing complex comprised of Filipinos but also Indians, Pakistanis, and Bangledeshis among others. I quickly became well versed in Filipino cuisine (synopsis: rice on anything) and was given the name Uncle Mike on my first night, when the family had me join them to a Frozen themed birthday party for their neighbors' six year old daughter. 

Name what's artificial in this photo (hint: everything)

Name what's artificial in this photo (hint: everything)

In Dubai, if they don't have it but want it, they'll build it or buy it. Indoor ski slopes, man made islands, golf courses with imported grass alongside imported palm trees. A friend who grew up here pointed to the enormous city skyline stretching across the horizon- "see that little white one" he said, pointing to a tiny white building in the distance, "ten years ago, that was the only building here." A few days later, right before National Day, the 43rd anniversary of the formation of the United Arab Emirates, Francis took me to "Old Dubai": a small collection of limestone huts with straw roofs tucked away in a space neatly called "Heritage Village". It was the only part of Dubai with no tourists. "This is what it must have all looked like here a hundred years ago." I thought out loud, looking at the dust and plain rocks of the huts. Francis laughed, "try thirty."

Alien landing strip / beachfront hotel 

Alien landing strip / beachfront hotel 

It's Vegas on steroids, New York with no crime, LA without the endless sprawl (yet). All of this just 100 miles across the water from Iran, next door to Oman, a couple hours from Baghdad. No one is actually from Dubai: nine out of ten residents are expats from almost every country in the world. Serbs to South Africans, Kiwis to Colombians- colliding with the different nationalities was interesting, hearing how they each ended up in the desert was even more so. 

On Thanksgiving Day I played in a doubles exhibition match prior to the tournament final, held at the private squash club of a Dubai sheikh, one of the four sons of the King of Dubai. I tried not to smile while chasing the ball around the sheiks' court in disbelief, half expecting someone to tell me this was all a joke. Afterward, a Spanish friend of a friend, Claudia, let me pile in her car along with a Frenchman and two Argentines and we headed out camping in the desert to celebrate their Indian friends' birthday. 

Spicy chicken on the grill and homemade hummus mixed with lively chatter and the occasional American hip hop jam from portable speakers, bringing out life amongst the combed, untouched sand surrounded by darkness. Someone brought Christmas lights, which served as only the faintest reminder that it was the holiday season somewhere. An Argentine strummed pop hits to a chorus of singers around the fire as I dusted off my fourth grade camping skills and taught the art of s'mores as my token cultural addition to the festivities. When we left the sun was just starting to pick up along the horizon, bringing with it another hot November day to the supersized Arab desert. 

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